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BROWSE FOR FREE ... Any Visitor can
browse our online Members Database
for FREE, to find their bashert. You don't have to be a member to do this.
Visitors can also email any member's profile to a friend or to themselves, and can subscribe to our
free, daily halacha emailings.
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BECOME AN ASSOCIATE MEMBER FOR FREE ...
No longer necessary, since Full Membership is now also FREE.
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BECOME A FULL MEMBER FOR FREE ...
by filling out our online
Membership Questionnaire.
You can then exchange free-form or fixed-form emails with any other member, and see their sponsor's contact information where given.
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MAKE CONTACT ... Once you or the other single are full members,
you can explore a possible shiddach (i) by using the free-form emails that Full members can send to
other members,
or (ii) by discussing matters with your own respective sponsors or (iii) by
having both sponsors discuss things with each other.
Using these channels, you are also free at this stage
to exchange any desired contact information with the other member and to communicate directly
by phone or via your own email software, etc.
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ADD SPONSOR INFORMATION TO YOUR PROFILE ...
To maintain the high standards of
traditional Jewish shadchanus (and the corresponding major benefits to our members of
privacy, security, tznius and the availability of an objective 3-rd party opinion),
we require that each member have a sponsor, who will, as needed, act as an intermediary with
other members and their sponsors.
If you didn't already do so at step 3, you can edit your profile to add your sponsor data at any later stage,
but it should be before the first actual meeting with another member, step 6.
Your sponsor's information will be visible only to Full members (not to Associate members or Visitors).
If you need help in finding a sponsor, see our list of
volunteer candidate sponsors.
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MEET ... (Optional)
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GET MARRIED ... If things work out,
get married and live happily ever after! Please let us know if you do find
your bashert through us, so we can include you (anonymously) in our
Success
Stories section.
According to Jewish tradition, when a shidach is made, both sides are expected to make a payment to the shadchan (matchmaker).
In this spirit, we respectfully request that if a shidach is made through our service, that both parties make a contribution
of at least $250 each. This amount is substantially less than what is expected in normal shadchanus. Your contribution will
help us continue this avodas ha'kodesh (holy work) of helping Jewish singles find their bashert.
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